Why is It that men like to hit it and quit it?

I think it is because they fear commitment.

A man does not like to feel like he has to check in or has to let someone know where he is going where a woman finds that basic rules of any relationship.

And if you are not cheating what does it matter.

I am grown and I always let someone know where I am.

It’s like a man will stay around he will play the wait game with you…

Then once you hit the bedroom he is gone…

Maybe not instantly but he does start to distant himself from you.

Things that he once enjoyed irritate him now.

Now he is smothered when at first he could not stand to be without you.

I believe it’s just because men view love differently from how we view it.

Men like Challenge…

They like the chase

Once you let a man know you have fallen for him

The hunt and the chase are over and in a lot of situations so is the relationship.

 He will soon then find the need to chase someone else…

I think that’s what happened in my last relationship…

It moved to fast…

I realized that a man I once idolized I could not stand…

He became ignorant to me…

His morals were so UGHHHHH to me…

I wanted the chase to be over and was happy that he complied so easily….

I swear if I see him I will walk right past him…

He was OFFICIALLY ERASED….

Sorry for venting….

SO yeah that’s why I think that men run after they say that they want to be in a relationship..

Not all men are like that..

But just in case you feel your man might be

Don’t worry…

If you like him do not… I mean do not give him to much right away….

Keep him chasing for your affection…..

Do not always give in to him….

Let him know that he is not the only one who wants to chase you…

He must understand that…

HE MUST…

If he is not attracted to you more than just sexually I am sorry but whatever you two have started will not last long at all.

KINKY